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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 11:51

How does one succeed in life?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

My girlfriend told me that she wants to move in with me. I have my own apartment and I like my peace and quiet, but I also love her. We've been together for a year now. What should I do?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why do I keep dreaming of my mom, who recently passed away from cancer, still being sick and in pain?

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

How do you handle family members who ask for handouts?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

The Labour Party wants to put the Winter fuel allowance and the £800,000 of gifts received by ministers behind us. Is this a real option for the people who will suffer as our new masters unapologeticly feast on freebies?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why do narcissists devour so much sugar (candy, ice cream, donuts, etc., in huge amounts at a time)?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why don’t the little sugar breeches gun owners understand that life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What is the meaning behind people claiming to hear voices of God in their heads without anyone else hearing them? Is this a sign of mental illness or possession by an evil spirit?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

That's it for today.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How good do you sing and how do you know this?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Which country has the best and strictest legal system in the world?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

What I need from you?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.